What is the attire for the events of the weekend?

Welcome party: White Party! For men: white shirts and khakis! For women: white dresses/ skirts and tops!

Ceremony / Reception: Black Tie Preferred.

Sunday brunch: come as you are! Casual

WILL THERE BE TRANSPORTATION?

Welcome party: there will be no transportation provided to and from the welcome party. we recommend using Uber / Lyft or contacting a local transportation company such as Briggs Taxi. There is also ample parking at Mantoloking Yacht Club

Wedding day: There will be transportation provided to and from the wedding at Bay Head Yacht Club if you are staying at The Grenville, Point Manor, or Bentley Inn. Please stay tuned for exact timing. If you are planning on driving to the wedding, there is valet parking at the main building at Bay Head Yacht Club and there is a golf cart that can take you to the Dale Building for the ceremony.

What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

The ceremony starts promptly at 4 pm. Please be at the Dale Building for the ceremony no later than 4:15pm.

I got the Save the Date and can’t make it, now what?

If you know that you will not be able to attend the wedding weekend, we kindly ask that you email us at abbeydan2026@gmail.com to let us know so that we can keep our guest list up to date.

Any other questions please feel free to email us! We would love to make this weekend as much fun for you as it will be for us, and are happy to help in any way we can! Our email is abbeydan2026@gmail.com